Top 10 Movies About Sexual Extremes
Have fun walking on (the cliff edge of) the wild side!
Top 10 Movies About Sexual Extremes
It's mid-August and Hot Summer Nights is in full swing on Sundance Channel. Some of the upcoming movies featured in this "steamy" series focus on sexual extremes: there's sex addiction in John Waters' outrageous comedy A DIRTY SHAME and also in the autobiographical tale I AM A SEX ADDICT; AUTOEROTIC follows the sexual obsessions of four Chicago couples; the compelling-looking (but unfortunately named) documentary SEX MAGIC: MANIFESTING MAYA follows the poly-amorous life of a sex guru; and INDIE SEX: EXTREMES looks at independent cinema that pushed the boundaries of sexual content in film.
Some things to keep in mind about our list: To make the cut, the films actually had to have some redeeming qualities (so, sorry BOXING HELENA and HUMAN CENTIPEDE!). We tried to pick films that represented ten different extremes—after all, variety is the spice of (sex) life! And while some of the "extremes" in this list are indeed criminal, others are simply lifestyle choices -- and in no way do we mean to impugn the latter by including alongside the former.
Have fun walking on (the cliff edge of) the wild side!10. BELLE DE JOUR (1967)
Catherine Deneuve, fabulously dressed in outfits designed by the then-little-known Yves St. Laurent, stars as an upper-class, Parisian housewife who can't bring herself to have sex with her husband when he comes home at night—but fucking strangers for money at the local brothel in the afternoons seems to be no problem. ("Belle de jour" is the French term for a day lily, which only blooms during the day.) Some might think the story was boundary-pushing for its time, but get this: it's based on a novel published in 1928! Directed by Luis Bunuel, promoted by Martin Scorsese for its 2002 DVD-release, and ranked #56 in Empire magazine's list The 100 Best Films of World Cinema.
Runner Up in the Prostitution Category: VIVRE SA VIE
Watch X on Sundance Channel on Saturday, August 25th, 1:30a—about two prostitutes on a job that goes horribly wrong.
The later it gets, the hotter it gets. Enjoy your HOT SUMMER NIGHTS with Sundance Channel. Tune in for a triple bill of films every Friday and Saturday night in August.
Author: Em and Lo9. BREAKING THE WAVES (1996)
Non-monogamy often gets a bad wrap, and BREAKING THE WAVES doesn't exactly reverse that trend. When a Norwegian oil-rig worker breaks his neck and loses his ability to perform sexually, he encourages his simple-minded wife to take new lovers and report back about her escapades. As her affairs grow more deviant and his recovery improves, she mistakes correlation for causation. Needless to say about a Lars von Trier film, it does not end well. Called one of the 10 best films of the 1990s by both Roger Ebert and Martin Scorsese.
Runners Up in the Polyamory Category: BELLE EPOQUE, UNBEARABLE LIGHTNESS OF BEING, HENRY & JUNE
Watch SEX MAGIC, MANIFESTING MAYA on Sundance Channel on Friday, August 24th, 11:40pm—about a poly-amorous sex guru who falls in love with one woman.
The later it gets, the hotter it gets. Enjoy your HOT SUMMER NIGHTS with Sundance Channel. Tune in for a triple bill of films every Friday and Saturday night in August.
Author: Em and Lo8. SICK: THE LIFE & DEATH OF BOB FLANAGAN, SUPERMASOCHIST (1997)
This is probably the least Sundance-y inclusion on our list (thanks to the nail-in-the-penis footage), and yet it was indeed a Sundance Film Festival documentary. In fact, it won a Special Jury Prize. SICK details Flanagan's use of masochism not only for sexual gratification, but for regaining some control over his body, which was ravaged—and ultimately defeated by—by cystic fibrosis.
Runner Up in the Masochism Category: THE PIANO TEACHER
The later it gets, the hotter it gets. Enjoy your HOT SUMMER NIGHTS with Sundance Channel. Tune in for a triple bill of films every Friday and Saturday night in August.
Author: Em and Lo7. CRASH (1996)
Not to be confused with the 2004 Academy Award winner for best picture about race relations in L.A. No, this 90s movie—based J. G. Ballards's 1973 novel of the same name, directed by David Cronenberg and starring James Spader and Holly Hunter—is all about symphorophilia: sexual arousal from staging and watching a disaster. In this case: car crashes. It received crazy mixed reviews: Roger Ebert gave it 4 out of 4 stars; we gave it a big goose egg for making soda come out our noses during the ridiculous sex scenes. Still, it won the Special Jury Prize at Cannes that year. Go figure.
Runner Up in the Paraphilia Category: Pixar's CARS (just kidding)
The later it gets, the hotter it gets. Enjoy your HOT SUMMER NIGHTS with Sundance Channel. Tune in for a triple bill of films every Friday and Saturday night in August.
Author: Em and Lo6. SPANKING THE MONKEY (1994)
This is probably the closet thing you'll ever get to a lighthearted film about incest, except for maybe THE HOTEL NEW HAMPSHIRE (but with that, the incest was just a side plot, so it doesn't count). Still, SPANKING is pretty dark—which is to be expected when your main character ends up in a sexual relationship he's not happy about with his own mother (we mean, if he were happy about it, that'd be a whole 'nother story). It won the Audience Award at Sundance and the Independent Spirit Award for Best First Screenplay.
Runners Up in the Incest Category: THE WAR ZONE and THE HOUSE OF YES
The later it gets, the hotter it gets. Enjoy your HOT SUMMER NIGHTS with Sundance Channel. Tune in for a triple bill of films every Friday and Saturday night in August.
Author: Em and Lo5. KISSED (1996)
It's a challenge to make necrophilia seem romantic and hot, but Canadian filmmaker Lynne Stopkewich kinda pulls it off in her film adaptation of Barbara Gowdy's awesome short story "We So Seldom Look on Love" (from her short story collection of the same name). The book gets away with more, but the movie holds it own thanks to Molly Parker's creepy performance (Parker showed up later in a few episodes of SIX FEET UNDER and more recently in DEXTER—guess she kinda has that death-obsessed look). Plus, it's got the craziest money shot we've ever seen.
Runners Up in the Necrophilia Category: QUILLS and CLERKS
Watch ENTER THE VOID on Sundance Channel Saturday, August 25th at 11p for a psychedelic tale of post-death reflection, which includes post-death sex and incest.
The later it gets, the hotter it gets. Enjoy your HOT SUMMER NIGHTS with Sundance Channel. Tune in for a triple bill of films every Friday and Saturday night in August.
Author: Em and Lo4. SHAME (2011)
Starring Michael Fassbender and his penis, SHAME is the least sexy movie about sex—because it's not about desire, but about compulsion and unyielding need, which is rarely pretty (despite Fassbender's perfectly toned abs and glutes). The film wore it's NC-17 rating with pride, and it worked: SHAME became the second-highest grossing film with that rating, just behind SHOWGIRLS.
Runners Up in the Sex Addiction Category: AUTO FOCUS and DECONSTRUCTING HARRY
Watch the autobiographical tale I AM A SEX ADDICT on Sundance Channel Friday, August 24th, 10:15p. Then watch A DIRTY SHAME Friday, August 24th, 10:15pm—an outrageous story about a sex-addict sub-culture in the suburbs of Baltimore.
The later it gets, the hotter it gets. Enjoy your HOT SUMMER NIGHTS with Sundance Channel. Tune in for a triple bill of films every Friday and Saturday night in August.
Author: Em and Lo3. LOLITA (1962 and 1997)
First of all, if you have not read this book yet, don't even think about watching these movie adaptations. In fact, don't even think about finishing this Top 10—go download Nabokov's 1955 novel for your Kindle or Nook right now and then come back. We'll wait.
Got it? Good. Now, without giving anything away, we CAN tell you that these two productions—the first by Stanley Kubrick and the second by Adrian Lyne—are two totally different stories, so different in fact that it's hard to believe they're based on the same novel. Each is a vivid reflection of the time in which it was made, and what you could get away with cinematically (though Lyne's much more blatantly erotic version still had a hard time finding an American distributor). The former is a goofy comedy-drama, the latter is all lyrical, dark and serious. (We're partial to the 1997 version as a better—but still imperfect—representation of the novel.)
Neither film won any major awards, which is no surprise: no film adaptation, past or future, could ever capture the greatness and complexity of the original novel -- they'll always be slight disappointments, even if they are decent films.
Author: Em and Lo2. 9 1/2 WEEKS (1986)
In the sexual control freak category, there is of course the classic 9 1/2 WEEKS. What starts off as a hot, experimental, Cosmo-inspired fling—fun with blindfolds and strawberries, private strip teases, playful cross-dressing, and public sex—ends as a toxic relationship about control, manipulation and degradation (and not the fun, consensual BDSM kind).
It had a $17 million budget for director Adrian Lyne but only grossed $7 mil at the U.S. box office. At a pre-screening of 1000 people, only 40 people stuck around until the end, with 35 of those people saying they hated it. It was nominated for three Golden Raspberries, including worst actress. But -- and this is a big "but"—it became a cult classic and, thanks to video sales, eventually grossed more than $100 million internationally. Even Roger Ebert gave it 3 1/2 stars for the believable chemistry between Kim Bassinger and Mickey Rourke. So while it's a bit cliche by now, we feel we would have been remiss in our duties had we not included it in a Top 10 of sexual extremes.
Runner Up in the Control Freak Category: LAST TANGO IN PARIS
The later it gets, the hotter it gets. Enjoy your HOT SUMMER NIGHTS with Sundance Channel. Tune in for a triple bill of films every Friday and Saturday night in August.
Author: Em and Lo1. SECRETARY (2002)
Unlike 9 1/2 WEEKS, this is the tale of a successful—and consensual—BDSM relationship. It's really one of the only decent positive depictions of a dom/sub relationship in film. And despite the bondage gear and the spanking episodes and the power plays, it's quite an adorable little love story. The fact that it's feminist—Maggie Gyllenhaal's character figures out what she wants and actively gets it—is just icing on the kinky cake! SECRETARY took home the Independent Spirit Award for best first screenplay and a Gotham Award for best breakthrough performance by Gyllenhaal.
Runner Up in the Feel-Good BDSM Category: THE NOTORIOUS BETTIE PAGE
Watch SECRETARY on Sundance Channel.
The later it gets, the hotter it gets. Enjoy your HOT SUMMER NIGHTS with Sundance Channel. Tune in for a triple bill of films every Friday and Saturday night in August.
Author: Em and Lo
