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  • What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Dec 30 2006 at 9:57am by jrgtampabay
    Why are most Christian churches anti-gay? Is it because the Bible teaches that homosexuality is a sin, or is it because our pastors teach us that the Bible teaches us that homosexuality is a sin? Are we truly following the word of God, or are we following the beliefs of our preacher?
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    • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Dec 31 2006 at 2:55pm by melissaelainelove
      The word of God teaches us that homosexuality is wrong. Read the end of Romans 1. See, the problem is not that churches are anti-gay or that being gay is the worst possible sing, being gay is wrong. The Bible teaches that. If you are a Christian and you follow the word of God, you cannot say that homosexuality is not a sin because it is. The problem is when Christian's judge homosexuality in a sinful manner. Each time homosexuality is mentioned, so is other sins that every one of us our guilty of. The issue is not "is homosexuality okay?", the issue is the heart. We are ALL sinners. We all fall short and have sin in our lives. The question is, have we confessed Jesus Christ as Lord of our hearts and whatever struggle we may have (homosexuality, cussing, sex in general, drugs, being hateful, mocking, etc), are we striving to make changes? Do we realize it IS sin instead of making excuses? God doesn't tell us something is a sin but say it's okay. He tells us what is sin so that we can repent.



      jrgtampabay wrote:

      (Dec 30 2006 @ 09:57am)

      Why are most Christian churches anti-gay? Is it because the Bible teaches that homosexuality is a sin, or is it because our pastors teach us that the Bible teaches us that homosexuality is a sin? Are we truly following the word of God, or are we following the beliefs of our preacher?

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      • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Dec 31 2006 at 6:49pm by mark.pierpont
        Without even beginning the discussion as to what the Bible actually says -- and there is MUCH to discuss on that -- its not as crystal clear as some would have us believe. Remember, we're actually just discussing about 6 or 7 passages -- all of which have many differing opinions or interpretations. But I digressed...



        The more pertinent question is this, when did Jesus ever tell us that when he went away he would send us 66 books that would be our only rule of faith and practice? Answer: NEVER Why? He didn't know? He didn't want to establish this as the foundation of his church?

        EXACTLY! He said to the Pharisees, who were masters of the written word, (and I paraphrase) You search the scriptures diligently to find the truth, but you ignore that the scriptures tell you about ME. I am the...truth." Jesus never ever told any of his disciples even a hint about a book that would be their guide. Religions have books. God is alive. That was his message. That is his message. "You have no need that anyone teach you anything, for when He, the Spirit of Truth is come, HE WILL GUIDE YOU INTO ALL TRUTH." That was what Jesus left us with: "I will not leave you comfortless, I will send you my Spirit and he will lead you into all truth." Not a book. Not a rule. SPIRIT. Those who know -- know. Those who don't try to find knowledge in a book that can never contain God.



        Surprise! I love the scriptures, just as Jesus did. They reveal God and the struggle men and women have had through the ages to know and experience God and to enter into the Glorious Dream (kingdom, if you please) of God.



        The whole question raised here dissolves in the presence and experience of God. Instead of dogmatism, we rise and grow to more of God. To love. To listening. To understanding.



        Being gay isn't a sin. Sin is falling short of God's glory, which we all do. Frankly, in the light of God, gay, straight, bi -- they are all just words. And words don't define God. God is the word. Not the Bible. We need to stop worshipping a book, and worship the eternal, living, spirit of God. The Bible is the final authority? Listen to yourself if you say those words. That, my friend,is idolatry according to the very text that you bow before!



        (By the way, your interpretation of Romans 1 is terribly flawed. Nowhere does it speak of homosexuality as a cause or a first action -- no matter how you read it -- the first cause is selfishness and then (as Paul may have seen it) same sex attraction came as a CONSEQUENCE -- it was NOT the sin. Read it again, and take off the "glasses" you have been given. You will never win a same-sex attracted person to friendship with God until you do.)



        melissaelainelove wrote:

        (Dec 31 2006 @ 02:55pm)

        The word of God teaches us that homosexuality is wrong. Read the end of Romans 1. See, the problem is not that churches are anti-gay or that being gay is the worst possible sing, being gay is wrong. The Bible teaches that. If you are a Christian and you follow the word of God, you cannot say that homosexuality is not a sin because it is. The problem is when Christian's judge homosexuality in a sinful manner. Each time homosexuality is mentioned, so is other sins that every one of us our guilty of. The issue is not "is homosexuality okay?", the issue is the heart. We are ALL sinners. We all fall short and have sin in our lives. The question is, have we confessed Jesus Christ as Lord of our hearts and whatever struggle we may have (homosexuality, cussing, sex in general, drugs, being hateful, mocking, etc), are we striving to make changes? Do we realize it IS sin instead of making excuses? God doesn't tell us something is a sin but say it's okay. He tells us what is sin so that we can repent.



        jrgtampabay wrote:

        (Dec 30 2006 @ 09:57am)

        Why are most Christian churches anti-gay? Is it because the Bible teaches that homosexuality is a sin, or is it because our pastors teach us that the Bible teaches us that homosexuality is a sin? Are we truly following the word of God, or are we following the beliefs of our preacher?



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        • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 1 2007 at 9:02am by jwhetnc
          I agree with mark. Also, I submit to you my thoughts concerning the bible. I believe that the bible is a written historically based account provided through the ages by "men" who felt inspired by God. It provides us history and may be considered a guide. However, consider that nothing ever produced by "man" can be without the influence or opinions of the writer... no matter how inspired of God or how good his/her intentions. Also consider the number of times that the bible has been translated. How can we possibly believe that the full intent of God was brought forth in every single word and line of scripture?



          Because of this, I believe each of us must search our hearts when reading the word, and try to discern what Jesus said and did, and what God's intent is.



          To the best of my knowledge Jesus loved everyone and advised strongly against judging others, and I do not recall any mention at any time of him condemning homosexuals.
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          • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 1 2007 at 10:54pm by freedom77
            I addressed most of the arguments of the last 2 posts under the "can I be gay and go to heaven" topic, including the whole "unreliability of the Bible" claim. Your arguments don't hold up. I also find it very interesting how, apparently, one should not look to the Bible to know the will of God. Instead, we can discount the Bible entirely and make God to be whomever we want him to be. This is the epitome of idalotry. The second commandment states that we should not worship any graven image (a false God). But what contemporary man does is create a false god after his own imagination to suit himself...a god he is more comfortable with ...a god who only loves but never judges...a god who doesn't command that people turn to Him in repentance....a god who is comfortable with all of his sins. What a terrible day it will be when death seizes upon that man who refused to embrace the one true God as He has revealed Himself in the Bible by repenting before Him and putting his trust in Christ as his savior...but instead finds himself at the judgment seat of a just and holy God who will require an account of every sin, every secret thing, and even every slanderous word he spoke out of his mouth. God will require an account on that day from those who, as the Bible says, "received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved.....but rather took pleasure in unrighteousness (2nd Thes 2:10,12). Such a man will be found as a transgressor of God's law, the penalty being the lake of fire, as described in Revelation 21:8. But God loves you and provided a way of escape from His wrath through Jesus. He died on the cross, receiving the punishment that you and I deserved for our sins. Then He rose from the dead, defeating death. God promises to forgive us of our sins and grant us eternal life if we would repent and put our trust in Jesus as our savior. My motive is not to condemn you but to wake you up to the truth, so that you won't pay the ultimate price. Similar to the apostle Paul, who stated that "it has been appointed for man once to die, and after this the judgment (Hebrews 9:27) and also, that "God commands all men everywhere to repent, for there is coming a day in which God would judge the world in righteousness (Acts 17:30-31).

            Jesus also commanded repentance, and He also stated that "God's WORD was truth" (John 17:17). So if you want to know truth, whatever it might be, the Bible is the place to start, rather than creating a god after your own imagination that suits yourself.

            We are all in desperate need of a savior, as we have all broken God's law. The question is, will we humble ourselves before God and embrace His plan of salvation, or try to make up our own? Friends, there is one of two choices: You can begin down the road of repentance and put your faith in Jesus, having Him receive the punishment you deserve for your sins, or.....you can receive the punishment upon yourself one day, and it will last forever.. I hope you choose the first path. If you do, you'll discover more about His love for you, but the greatest demonstration of His love will always be the cross, where Jesus voluntarily died so that you could live.



            jwhetnc wrote:

            (Jan 01 2007 @ 09:02am)

            I agree with mark. Also, I submit to you my thoughts concerning the bible. I believe that the bible is a written historically based account provided through the ages by "men" who felt inspired by God. It provides us history and may be considered a guide. However, consider that nothing ever produced by "man" can be without the influence or opinions of the writer... no matter how inspired of God or how good his/her intentions. Also consider the number of times that the bible has been translated. How can we possibly believe that the full intent of God was brought forth in every single word and line of scripture?



            Because of this, I believe each of us must search our hearts when reading the word, and try to discern what Jesus said and did, and what God's intent is.



            To the best of my knowledge Jesus loved everyone and advised strongly against judging others, and I do not recall any mention at any time of him condemning homosexuals.

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            • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 2 2007 at 7:07pm by jwhetnc
              freedom77,

              I respectly disagree with you. I don't need written words to tell me what my heart says about God. I must follow what my heart tells me. As to the question of whether I "can be gay and go to heaven"? God answered the question for me years ago. However, everyone has a right to his/her own opinion.
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              • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 2 2007 at 7:21pm by julie_danielle
                Good for you!!!

                jwhetnc wrote:

                (Jan 02 2007 @ 07:07pm)

                freedom77,

                I respectly disagree with you. I don't need written words to tell me what my heart says about God. I must follow what my heart tells me. As to the question of whether I "can be gay and go to heaven"? God answered the question for me years ago. However, everyone has a right to his/her own opinion.

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              • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 3 2007 at 1:28am by freedom77
                jwhetnc,

                I followed what my heart told me also, back in 1991 when I agreed with God's assessment of mankind and his need for mercy, and responded to the gospel. Not only am I saved from the penalty of sin by His grace, but His power at work in my life has brought change that otherwise would have never been possible. And if people would read his word, God would speak to them in ways not to harm them, but to help them. Time to go to sleep.... maybe we'll chat again another night.



                jwhetnc wrote:

                (Jan 02 2007 @ 07:07pm)

                freedom77,

                I respectly disagree with you. I don't need written words to tell me what my heart says about God. I must follow what my heart tells me. As to the question of whether I "can be gay and go to heaven"? God answered the question for me years ago. However, everyone has a right to his/her own opinion.

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              • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 3 2007 at 1:49am by melissaelainelove
                It's not about opinions, it's about the truth. Jesus said I am THE way and THE light, He did not say there are more than a hundred different ways and lights, pick one and no matter what you'll be okay as long as your heart is with it. I mean this in all non-offense and I do not judge the person that is homosexual, but I do recognize homosexuality as a sin, but I am not sinless so I cannot judge. I think a person can be gay and go to heaven, but I believe that the person who is gay and Christian is one that recognizes that homosexuality is sin and he strives to change that and repent for it in his/her life just as any other believer in Christ would repent for their biggest sin struggle in life.



                jwhetnc wrote:

                (Jan 02 2007 @ 07:07pm)

                freedom77,

                I respectly disagree with you. I don't need written words to tell me what my heart says about God. I must follow what my heart tells me. As to the question of whether I "can be gay and go to heaven"? God answered the question for me years ago. However, everyone has a right to his/her own opinion.

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                • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 19 2007 at 5:20pm by mark.pierpont
                  Have you formed your opinion about gay relationships from careful study and prayer, or from absorbing the false teachings and misinterpretations of men who started with a false premise? I challenge you with this: do a careful study and you will find that there is at best a very very weak case in scripture about loving homosexual relationships.



                  In fact, if you explore the original languages and cultures in which they were penned, you will be left with only one challenging passage found in Romans 1. You don't have to agree with my understanding on that passage, but you should acknowledge that there is room for debate.



                  For me, there is no debate, because the conclusions are personal and real to my person. For you, they are not personal.



                  The way, the truth and the life, yes, the living Jesus celebrates with me the freedom and joy I have with my life partner, Nick. I suggest you contact Dr. Anthony Campolo from Eastern University. He is a well known and respected evangelical leader. Like you, he holds that God's design is not for same-sex marriages, etc. His wife holds a different view. Together they debate the topic publicly, essentially calling Christians to stop making division out of something so unclear in scripture. They will send you a CD for free. I think you will find it enlightening.



                  Remember, Jesus said NOTHING about same sex relationships. Why do Christians make is not only SOMETHING -- but the thing?

                  melissaelainelove wrote:

                  (Jan 03 2007 @ 01:49am)

                  It's not about opinions, it's about the truth. Jesus said I am THE way and THE light, He did not say there are more than a hundred different ways and lights, pick one and no matter what you'll be okay as long as your heart is with it. I mean this in all non-offense and I do not judge the person that is homosexual, but I do recognize homosexuality as a sin, but I am not sinless so I cannot judge. I think a person can be gay and go to heaven, but I believe that the person who is gay and Christian is one that recognizes that homosexuality is sin and he strives to change that and repent for it in his/her life just as any other believer in Christ would repent for their biggest sin struggle in life.



                  jwhetnc wrote:

                  (Jan 02 2007 @ 07:07pm)

                  freedom77,

                  I respectly disagree with you. I don't need written words to tell me what my heart says about God. I must follow what my heart tells me. As to the question of whether I "can be gay and go to heaven"? God answered the question for me years ago. However, everyone has a right to his/her own opinion.



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            • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 3 2007 at 1:44am by melissaelainelove
              I really felt the need to respond in saying thank you. I loved what you wrote because it is all scripture base. It's hard hearing over and over again "the Bible has been translated so many times so let's disregard it" because that right there shows there is no trust in God because if you trusted God, you would know that He is all powerful and you would trust that His WORD is absoloutely 100% the way it is suposed to be right now in this moment.



              I enjoyed reading how you went straight to the cross, because like I "tried" explaining but I am not great with words online, the issue is not "can I be gay or not?" the issue is, we all have sin and we NEED Christ to overcome the judgment we all deserve. Your writing encouraged me after reading two responses that just don't seem to understand, and I mean that in a non-judgmental way, it just saddened me I supose, so thank you and God bless :)



              freedom77 wrote:

              (Jan 01 2007 @ 10:54pm)

              I addressed most of the arguments of the last 2 posts under the "can I be gay and go to heaven" topic, including the whole "unreliability of the Bible" claim. Your arguments don't hold up. I also find it very interesting how, apparently, one should not look to the Bible to know the will of God. Instead, we can discount the Bible entirely and make God to be whomever we want him to be. This is the epitome of idalotry. The second commandment states that we should not worship any graven image (a false God). But what contemporary man does is create a false god after his own imagination to suit himself...a god he is more comfortable with ...a god who only loves but never judges...a god who doesn't command that people turn to Him in repentance....a god who is comfortable with all of his sins. What a terrible day it will be when death seizes upon that man who refused to embrace the one true God as He has revealed Himself in the Bible by repenting before Him and putting his trust in Christ as his savior...but instead finds himself at the judgment seat of a just and holy God who will require an account of every sin, every secret thing, and even every slanderous word he spoke out of his mouth. God will require an account on that day from those who, as the Bible says, "received not the love of the truth, that they might be saved.....but rather took pleasure in unrighteousness (2nd Thes 2:10,12). Such a man will be found as a transgressor of God's law, the penalty being the lake of fire, as described in Revelation 21:8. But God loves you and provided a way of escape from His wrath through Jesus. He died on the cross, receiving the punishment that you and I deserved for our sins. Then He rose from the dead, defeating death. God promises to forgive us of our sins and grant us eternal life if we would repent and put our trust in Jesus as our savior. My motive is not to condemn you but to wake you up to the truth, so that you won't pay the ultimate price. Similar to the apostle Paul, who stated that "it has been appointed for man once to die, and after this the judgment (Hebrews 9:27) and also, that "God commands all men everywhere to repent, for there is coming a day in which God would judge the world in righteousness (Acts 17:30-31).

              Jesus also commanded repentance, and He also stated that "God's WORD was truth" (John 17:17). So if you want to know truth, whatever it might be, the Bible is the place to start, rather than creating a god after your own imagination that suits yourself.

              We are all in desperate need of a savior, as we have all broken God's law. The question is, will we humble ourselves before God and embrace His plan of salvation, or try to make up our own? Friends, there is one of two choices: You can begin down the road of repentance and put your faith in Jesus, having Him receive the punishment you deserve for your sins, or.....you can receive the punishment upon yourself one day, and it will last forever.. I hope you choose the first path. If you do, you'll discover more about His love for you, but the greatest demonstration of His love will always be the cross, where Jesus voluntarily died so that you could live.



              jwhetnc wrote:

              (Jan 01 2007 @ 09:02am)

              I agree with mark. Also, I submit to you my thoughts concerning the bible. I believe that the bible is a written historically based account provided through the ages by "men" who felt inspired by God. It provides us history and may be considered a guide. However, consider that nothing ever produced by "man" can be without the influence or opinions of the writer... no matter how inspired of God or how good his/her intentions. Also consider the number of times that the bible has been translated. How can we possibly believe that the full intent of God was brought forth in every single word and line of scripture?



              Because of this, I believe each of us must search our hearts when reading the word, and try to discern what Jesus said and did, and what God's intent is.



              To the best of my knowledge Jesus loved everyone and advised strongly against judging others, and I do not recall any mention at any time of him condemning homosexuals.



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              • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 4 2007 at 3:45am by themanwithoutties
                i want to thank you all for a respectful and (mostly) scripturally based thread. this is a really controversial issue, and i've long held my own opinions about it. however, i am starting to see that these opinions were based more on emotion and personal preference than on the Word of God. as a seeking Christian, i have to believe that what the Bible says about same-sex relations is in there for a reason. but, we must always remain on the cross so that the love of Christ can accept and reach *all* people, since God does absolutely desire all people (who are sinners by birth) to be saved and come to full knowledge of the truth. as Christians, i think we can all agree that each of us needs and desires a deeper relationship with the Lord, more grace, more light, more study of the Word, and more growth in the divine life, in order to deal with our personal sins and judgmentalism. no one can truly convict us of our own shortcomings but the Holy Spirit -- as it ought to be, since often the people who criticize a certain thing the most, hate that very thing within themselves. i speak from experience, but it took me a long time to realize it. God bless you all.
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              • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jul 8 2008 at 12:23am by nsquarticsurface
                I don't want to be disrespectful (oh, heck who am I kidding...yes I do!!), but you are wrong. The Bible is not 100% correct. In fact, I would like to share a piece of writing I did recently.

                What horrors do the Christian religion want us to do?!?!


                Sacrifice our children:

                Take your son, your only son – yes, Isaac, whom you love so much – and
                go to the land of Moriah. Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering on
                one of the mountains, which I will point out to you." (Genesis
                22:1-18)


                You must marry those you rape (of course rape is OK):

                If a man is caught in the act of raping a young woman who is not
                engaged, he must pay fifty pieces of silver to her father. Then he
                must marry the young woman because he violated her, and he will never
                be allowed to divorce her. (Deuteronomy 22:28-29)


                Slavery is fine, and we should treat our slaves like property:

                However, you may purchase male or female slaves from among the
                foreigners who live among you. You may also purchase the children of
                such resident foreigners, including those who have been born in your
                land. (Leviticus 25:44-46)


                Working hard is not a Christian value, you should make other people do
                everything for you:

                If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask for whatever you
                want and it will be done for you. (John 15:7)

                Do you still believe that this is the true 100% word of God? If not, how can you pick and choose what is true and what isn't? Is it my gross misinterpretation? Well, I call any condemning of homosexuality a gross misinterpretation.
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        • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 4 2007 at 8:19pm by sadpreacher
          I also must agree with Mark. I was raised a Catholic and I knew early on that the Word being taught me was nothing short of one person's interpretation of the bible. I left my Christian roots and became what I thought was agnostic but deep in my heart I still believed in God and the Christ. I cannot recall the exact biblical quotes that denounce homosexualtiy but in my later years I began to wonder about the bible. I have watched numerous scientific shows and read text that explains when the New Testament was written: 80-100 years following the crucifiction. What does this tell me? The New Testament was written by men too young to have witnessed Christ's ministry and miracles for themselves. So it is only logical that there must be some human twist to the gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. I have read where the Catholic Church has dubbed the gospels of Phillip, Judas, and Mary of Magdala aside from writings from the Dead Sea Scrolls as gnostic writings. Each proven to be authentic. Why is that? What would make the heresey? I believe it was done so as not to bring change to a book that has stood as the guide for Christianity for two millenia. The last thing Rome needs is a major change as they are quite comfortable with things the way they are. Christ states time and time again that the Kingdom will be open to all that accept Jesus Christ as their savior and practice Christianity as it was meant to be. Heaven is open to all. If a homosexual accepts Christ and lives a righteous life, he/she will be permitted to enter the Kingdom of God.



          Do we denounce Judiasm, Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism as a mortal sin because the bear false witness to another God? I don't think so. To err is human. And I believe that God will not send homosexuals to hell simply because of gender preference. So in essence I am saying that the bible needs to be interpreted by each person who believes, and the word "belief" is what is most important. Christ damned the Sanhedrin, Saudacees, and Pharisees for their misintepretation of the Word, their corruption of the Word and faith. Is there really much difference between that and what Rome does in it's interpretation of the Word? The bible is an account of God's glory and the ministry of Christ. Moses was given the scriptures as a "rulebook" for God's grace yet Christ sort of rearranges the guidelines opening the gates to heaven for all of mankind and not just the "chosen" Jews.



          Think about it.



          mark.pierpont wrote:

          (Dec 31 2006 @ 06:49pm)

          Without even beginning the discussion as to what the Bible actually says -- and there is MUCH to discuss on that -- its not as crystal clear as some would have us believe. Remember, we're actually just discussing about 6 or 7 passages -- all of which have many differing opinions or interpretations. But I digressed...



          The more pertinent question is this, when did Jesus ever tell us that when he went away he would send us 66 books that would be our only rule of faith and practice? Answer: NEVER Why? He didn't know? He didn't want to establish this as the foundation of his church?

          EXACTLY! He said to the Pharisees, who were masters of the written word, (and I paraphrase) You search the scriptures diligently to find the truth, but you ignore that the scriptures tell you about ME. I am the...truth." Jesus never ever told any of his disciples even a hint about a book that would be their guide. Religions have books. God is alive. That was his message. That is his message. "You have no need that anyone teach you anything, for when He, the Spirit of Truth is come, HE WILL GUIDE YOU INTO ALL TRUTH." That was what Jesus left us with: "I will not leave you comfortless, I will send you my Spirit and he will lead you into all truth." Not a book. Not a rule. SPIRIT. Those who know -- know. Those who don't try to find knowledge in a book that can never contain God.



          Surprise! I love the scriptures, just as Jesus did. They reveal God and the struggle men and women have had through the ages to know and experience God and to enter into the Glorious Dream (kingdom, if you please) of God.



          The whole question raised here dissolves in the presence and experience of God. Instead of dogmatism, we rise and grow to more of God. To love. To listening. To understanding.



          Being gay isn't a sin. Sin is falling short of God's glory, which we all do. Frankly, in the light of God, gay, straight, bi -- they are all just words. And words don't define God. God is the word. Not the Bible. We need to stop worshipping a book, and worship the eternal, living, spirit of God. The Bible is the final authority? Listen to yourself if you say those words. That, my friend,is idolatry according to the very text that you bow before!



          (By the way, your interpretation of Romans 1 is terribly flawed. Nowhere does it speak of homosexuality as a cause or a first action -- no matter how you read it -- the first cause is selfishness and then (as Paul may have seen it) same sex attraction came as a CONSEQUENCE -- it was NOT the sin. Read it again, and take off the "glasses" you have been given. You will never win a same-sex attracted person to friendship with God until you do.)



          melissaelainelove wrote:

          (Dec 31 2006 @ 02:55pm)

          The word of God teaches us that homosexuality is wrong. Read the end of Romans 1. See, the problem is not that churches are anti-gay or that being gay is the worst possible sing, being gay is wrong. The Bible teaches that. If you are a Christian and you follow the word of God, you cannot say that homosexuality is not a sin because it is. The problem is when Christian's judge homosexuality in a sinful manner. Each time homosexuality is mentioned, so is other sins that every one of us our guilty of. The issue is not "is homosexuality okay?", the issue is the heart. We are ALL sinners. We all fall short and have sin in our lives. The question is, have we confessed Jesus Christ as Lord of our hearts and whatever struggle we may have (homosexuality, cussing, sex in general, drugs, being hateful, mocking, etc), are we striving to make changes? Do we realize it IS sin instead of making excuses? God doesn't tell us something is a sin but say it's okay. He tells us what is sin so that we can repent.



          jrgtampabay wrote:

          (Dec 30 2006 @ 09:57am)

          Why are most Christian churches anti-gay? Is it because the Bible teaches that homosexuality is a sin, or is it because our pastors teach us that the Bible teaches us that homosexuality is a sin? Are we truly following the word of God, or are we following the beliefs of our preacher?





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          • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 6 2007 at 12:15am by classof2008

            sadpreacher wrote:

            (Jan 04 2007 @ 08:19pm)

            I also must agree with Mark. I was raised a Catholic and I knew early on that the Word being taught me was nothing short of one person's interpretation of the bible. I left my Christian roots and became what I thought was agnostic but deep in my heart I still believed in God and the Christ. I cannot recall the exact biblical quotes that denounce homosexualtiy but in my later years I began to wonder about the bible. I have watched numerous scientific shows and read text that explains when the New Testament was written: 80-100 years following the crucifiction. What does this tell me? The New Testament was written by men too young to have witnessed Christ's ministry and miracles for themselves. So it is only logical that there must be some human twist to the gospels of Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John. I have read where the Catholic Church has dubbed the gospels of Phillip, Judas, and Mary of Magdala aside from writings from the Dead Sea Scrolls as gnostic writings. Each proven to be authentic. Why is that? What would make the heresey? I believe it was done so as not to bring change to a book that has stood as the guide for Christianity for two millenia. The last thing Rome needs is a major change as they are quite comfortable with things the way they are. Christ states time and time again that the Kingdom will be open to all that accept Jesus Christ as their savior and practice Christianity as it was meant to be. Heaven is open to all. If a homosexual accepts Christ and lives a righteous life, he/she will be permitted to enter the Kingdom of God.



            Do we denounce Judiasm, Islam, Buddhism, Hinduism, Taoism as a mortal sin because the bear false witness to another God? I don't think so. To err is human. And I believe that God will not send homosexuals to hell simply because of gender preference. So in essence I am saying that the bible needs to be interpreted by each person who believes, and the word "belief" is what is most important. Christ damned the Sanhedrin, Saudacees, and Pharisees for their misintepretation of the Word, their corruption of the Word and faith. Is there really much difference between that and what Rome does in it's interpretation of the Word? The bible is an account of God's glory and the ministry of Christ. Moses was given the scriptures as a "rulebook" for God's grace yet Christ sort of rearranges the guidelines opening the gates to heaven for all of mankind and not just the "chosen" Jews.



            Think about it.



            mark.pierpont wrote:

            (Dec 31 2006 @ 06:49pm)

            Without even beginning the discussion as to what the Bible actually says -- and there is MUCH to discuss on that -- its not as crystal clear as some would have us believe. Remember, we're actually just discussing about 6 or 7 passages -- all of which have many differing opinions or interpretations. But I digressed...



            The more pertinent question is this, when did Jesus ever tell us that when he went away he would send us 66 books that would be our only rule of faith and practice? Answer: NEVER Why? He didn't know? He didn't want to establish this as the foundation of his church?

            EXACTLY! He said to the Pharisees, who were masters of the written word, (and I paraphrase) You search the scriptures diligently to find the truth, but you ignore that the scriptures tell you about ME. I am the...truth." Jesus never ever told any of his disciples even a hint about a book that would be their guide. Religions have books. God is alive. That was his message. That is his message. "You have no need that anyone teach you anything, for when He, the Spirit of Truth is come, HE WILL GUIDE YOU INTO ALL TRUTH." That was what Jesus left us with: "I will not leave you comfortless, I will send you my Spirit and he will lead you into all truth." Not a book. Not a rule. SPIRIT. Those who know -- know. Those who don't try to find knowledge in a book that can never contain God.



            Surprise! I love the scriptures, just as Jesus did. They reveal God and the struggle men and women have had through the ages to know and experience God and to enter into the Glorious Dream (kingdom, if you please) of God.



            The whole question raised here dissolves in the presence and experience of God. Instead of dogmatism, we rise and grow to more of God. To love. To listening. To understanding.



            Being gay isn't a sin. Sin is falling short of God's glory, which we all do. Frankly, in the light of God, gay, straight, bi -- they are all just words. And words don't define God. God is the word. Not the Bible. We need to stop worshipping a book, and worship the eternal, living, spirit of God. The Bible is the final authority? Listen to yourself if you say those words. That, my friend,is idolatry according to the very text that you bow before!



            (By the way, your interpretation of Romans 1 is terribly flawed. Nowhere does it speak of homosexuality as a cause or a first action -- no matter how you read it -- the first cause is selfishness and then (as Paul may have seen it) same sex attraction came as a CONSEQUENCE -- it was NOT the sin. Read it again, and take off the "glasses" you have been given. You will never win a same-sex attracted person to friendship with God until you do.)



            melissaelainelove wrote:

            (Dec 31 2006 @ 02:55pm)

            The word of God teaches us that homosexuality is wrong. Read the end of Romans 1. See, the problem is not that churches are anti-gay or that being gay is the worst possible sing, being gay is wrong. The Bible teaches that. If you are a Christian and you follow the word of God, you cannot say that homosexuality is not a sin because it is. The problem is when Christian's judge homosexuality in a sinful manner. Each time homosexuality is mentioned, so is other sins that every one of us our guilty of. The issue is not "is homosexuality okay?", the issue is the heart. We are ALL sinners. We all fall short and have sin in our lives. The question is, have we confessed Jesus Christ as Lord of our hearts and whatever struggle we may have (homosexuality, cussing, sex in general, drugs, being hateful, mocking, etc), are we striving to make changes? Do we realize it IS sin instead of making excuses? God doesn't tell us something is a sin but say it's okay. He tells us what is sin so that we can repent.



            [quote=jrgtampabay] (Dec 30 2006 @ 09:57am)

            Why are most Christian churches anti-gay? Is it because the Bible teaches that homosexuality is a sin, or is it because our pastors teach us that the Bible teaches us that homosexuality is a sin? Are we truly following the word of God, or are we following the beliefs of our preacher?







            [/quote]





            -ok i know this is not the most popular belief but on the first hand the gnostic gospels were discarded from the bible not because of any selfish pride or because christians are scared of change but the original gospels(matthew, mark, luke, and john) were written around the same time period, and the reason that they were discarded is because some of those gospels were so old by the time they were found they had literally holes in the paper i mean words were torn out sentences missing. i mean isnt it considered judgemental to say that the men who chose the books that were to go into the bible were so prideful and self-obsorbed that they just wanted to feed off of christianity and just make drones out of christians. that would be ridiculous and very illogical thinking. the problem with christians is that they think the bible is just a rule-book if that is all you think of the bible than you are missing out on who God actually is. i mean yea totally the bible is a great thing to live by but im just saying that if thats all you think of it as then yea you will be a good person but you will not know God and that is the whole point of the bible. you see God could careless about how many good things you do and how many scriptures you memorize but if you dont have a relationship with Him than it's worthless in first corithians it says that if you do all this good stuff but have not love than it's worthless. even jesus said "i say to you on that day many of you will come and say Lord Lord, did i not preach or cast out demons in your name and then i will reply to them by saying depart from me i never knew you." so you see the bible is not just a book because if you doubt the bible because the bible is God revealing himself to you so nobody is trying pick and choose. and about the whole what makes being gay a sin thing not to disappoint you but it is a sin that was the whole reason God blew up sodom and gamorah i mean God didnt create us that way i think that if God wanted it that way than he would have created it that way but he didnt and in the bible it says you must deny yourself and follow him you see when you become a christian its not about you you you it's about God you must comform to God Romans 12:1-2 says i urge you brethren to lay down your life as a living sacrifice this is your spiritual act of worship. do not be conformed to the ways of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. it's not saying to kill yourself but to humble yourselves and give up you want for what God wants so i mean your not born gay the devil tempts you with that urge just like he tempts people with lust after women it's just we have to resist those tendencies and focus on what God wants not make up theories to make ourselves feel better thats like saying i had sex just because everyone else is. and i dont want yall to take it the wrong way but you cannot be gay at the same time its like saying i love you God but im gonna do my own thing but then u try and change the bible to fit your way but God said "i am the LORD your God i do not change." so dont doubt the bible its God's word to us. i am a christian and just because you believe in jesus dosent make u a christian the bible says "that if you confess with ur mouth that jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead then you shall be save." so guys just because something feels right dosent mean it is. anything anyone tells you must be backed-up by scripture and its our job as christians to do that its ok to question preachers and priests and preachers whatever you just need to make sure so you dontget the wool pulled over your eyes and watch out for people who twist the scriptures and thats all i

            really have to say.
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            • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 7 2007 at 6:05pm by jcisthelight619
              What was the sin of Sodom in Genesis 19:1-28?



              This Old Testament passage is often wrongly used as "biblical proof" that God is displeased with homosexuals. According to many people these cities were destroyed because residents committed the "sin of homosexuality." To suggest that Sodom and Gomorrah were destroyed because of homosexuality is to misinterpret Scripture. The prophet Ezekiel, in an equally inspired book of the Bible, tells that God was displeased with Sodom for very different reasons: "Now this was the sin of your sister Sodom: She and her daughters were arrogant, overfed, and unconcerned; they did not help the poor and needy. They were haughty, and did detestable things before me (literally, "committed idolatry"). Therefore I did away with them as you have seen. (Ezekiel 16:49-50, New International version.) In every other reference in the Bible (and there are several) the condemned "sins of Sodom" are such things as pride and inhospitality. The people of Sodom broke the law of hospitality to strangers which was so religiously observed in their culture. Use of the expression "bring these men out to us, that we may know them" (Genesis 19:5) is the basis for most of the misinterpretation. The Hebrew verb yadha ("to know") used here is found 943 times in the Hebrew Scriptures and in only ten places does it mean sexual intercourse - each time referring to heterosexual relations. But even if the people of Sodom did attempt a "homosexual" attack upon the angels, the passage would serve as a clear condemnation of rape (certainly an extreme form of inhospitality). Rape, either heterosexual or homosexual, is sin under any circumstances.



              ALSO -



              Other Hebrew scriptures are selectively used to show the Bible condemns a gay lifestyle. Two are found in the book of Leviticus, 18:22 and 20:13: "Thou shalt not lie with a man as thou would like with a woman." Anyone who quotes these prohibitions should read the entire chapters or the whole book of Leviticus. Levitical law demands no eating of pork, lobster, shrimp, oysters, or rare meat; no intercourse during the menstrual period; no interbreeding of cattle; and a whole host of others laws, including the law to kill all people who commit adultery.



              AND

              Neither Jesus, nor Paul, nor any of the New Testament Scriptures imply that Christians are held to the cultic or ethical rules of the law of Moses. Paul clearly taught that Christians are no longer under the Old Law (Galatians 3:23-25); that the Old Law is brought to completion in Christ (Romans 10:4); and its fulfillment is in love (Romans 13:8-10, Galatians 5:14). Jesus did deal with human sexuality in an open and unthreatened manner. He affirmed on one hand the goods of marriage, but also declared marriage is not for everyone (Matthew 19:3-12). Furthermore, the Bible does not record one word spoken by Jesus condemning homosexuality.



              KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK IN READING THE BIBLE WITHOUT TRULY UNDERSTANDING ALL OF IT!
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      • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 9 2007 at 1:20pm by tactickid
        I agree. All sins are the same in the eyes of God. The church anti-gay? I don't think so. But the church needs more training. The church sins too and so the church focus on one or two sins to yield the focus of their sins somewhere else. I don't think this is intentional but is human. Christians or no Christians we all do it. It is not right though. We need to repent in order to receive grace.



        The Lord commanded us to preach the Gospel (not to exalt one or two sins) and He deals with the sin from inside out. The sinner then needs support to bear and leave the sin (if true repentance occur). It is not easy. But the church is so inmature that judges and accuse sometimes.



        Some Leaders exagerates the sin of homosexuality but they themselves lie, amd commercialize the gospel and oppress the weak. They use the offering money for their vacations and houses and cars. I am sure you know what I am talking about. That is sin too. same as homosexuality. Both the homosexual and the corrupted Leader should sit together and repent and pray for forgiveness and invite the prostitutes, the liars, the proudful, the opportunists, the jeaulous, the ambitious, to repent together of all those sins that cannot be seen like homosexuality.



        On the other hand, the reason why homosexuality is consider, in the human eye, a more horrendous sin is because it endangers humanity as we know it. This sin attempts to destroy the plan of God to fill the world, it executes the extermination of humanity. Imagine if 51% of the world was gay or lesbian, we will have less babies every year. Population will start to decrease, opposing a direct command from God to be fruitful. It is the cesation of life, and that is horrible.



        I think Mr. Jay Bakker is exercizing the same sin, trying to portrait himself as MORE LOVING than the church. Exalting the church sin of being judgemental and he on the other hand is so loving. So he is better than the church and therefore closer to God.



        This is not the way. The corruption of the church is biblical, but it should draw us closer to God when the church rejects us because we do not fear to tell their sin, and we should not waste our time attacking her but pray for her. And there is the persecuted church also that we can help instead. Take my advice Jay.
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        • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 9 2007 at 2:18pm by julie_danielle
          On the other hand, the reason why homosexuality is consider, in the human eye, a more horrendous sin is because it endangers humanity as we know it. This sin attempts to destroy the plan of God to fill the world, it executes the extermination of humanity. Imagine if 51% of the world was gay or lesbian, we will have less babies every year. Population will start to decrease, opposing a direct command from God to be fruitful. It is the cesation of life, and that is horrible.



          Are you really serious???? I mean, I had a good laugh on this one. Of all the IGNORANT things I have heard..this by far tops them all. MAYBE IN YOUR FUNDAMENTALIST WHITE HOMOPHOBE WORLD>>>...and I can't say I would be sad about that. First off, the homosexuals are not out to TAKE OVER.....and I doubt very seriously that the population of this world would be split down the middle...straight/gay - 50/50 - I'm beginning to get a real kick out of reading such ignorant banter...just solidifies how CRAZY the religious right, fundamentalist agenda is. Way to win others to Christ!



          tactickid wrote:

          (Jan 09 2007 @ 01:20pm)

          I agree. All sins are the same in the eyes of God. The church anti-gay? I don't think so. But the church needs more training. The church sins too and so the church focus on one or two sins to yield the focus of their sins somewhere else. I don't think this is intentional but is human. Christians or no Christians we all do it. It is not right though. We need to repent in order to receive grace.



          The Lord commanded us to preach the Gospel (not to exalt one or two sins) and He deals with the sin from inside out. The sinner then needs support to bear and leave the sin (if true repentance occur). It is not easy. But the church is so inmature that judges and accuse sometimes.



          Some Leaders exagerates the sin of homosexuality but they themselves lie, amd commercialize the gospel and oppress the weak. They use the offering money for their vacations and houses and cars. I am sure you know what I am talking about. That is sin too. same as homosexuality. Both the homosexual and the corrupted Leader should sit together and repent and pray for forgiveness and invite the prostitutes, the liars, the proudful, the opportunists, the jeaulous, the ambitious, to repent together of all those sins that cannot be seen like homosexuality.



          On the other hand, the reason why homosexuality is consider, in the human eye, a more horrendous sin is because it endangers humanity as we know it. This sin attempts to destroy the plan of God to fill the world, it executes the extermination of humanity. Imagine if 51% of the world was gay or lesbian, we will have less babies every year. Population will start to decrease, opposing a direct command from God to be fruitful. It is the cesation of life, and that is horrible.



          I think Mr. Jay Bakker is exercizing the same sin, trying to portrait himself as MORE LOVING than the church. Exalting the church sin of being judgemental and he on the other hand is so loving. So he is better than the church and therefore closer to God.



          This is not the way. The corruption of the church is biblical, but it should draw us closer to God when the church rejects us because we do not fear to tell their sin, and we should not waste our time attacking her but pray for her. And there is the persecuted church also that we can help instead. Take my advice Jay.

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          • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Mar 19 2007 at 11:54am by george_worley
            51 percent? Lets see the worlds population is just now over 6 billion and projected to be over 9 billion in the by the year 2042. Even if 51 percent of the worlds population suddenly became gay it would take a while for the world's population to fall below pre-world war II levels -- which was around 2 billion. Also as a side benefit this would reduce our carbon foot print and just maybe the earth could return to normal.

            There are 6 or 7 verses used in the Bible that allegedly condemn homosexuality while there are over 600 that condemn heterosexual sex.

            The word homosexual didn't appear in any English translation of the Bible until 1942. Every one of the so called 6 or 7 clobber verses that are use to condemn homosexual can be, if used in the context of the times and in the context of the Bible be dispelled.

            The Bible is full of mistranslations as some words cannot be translated from the original languages (Hebrew and Koine Greek) to English so the translators out of their own prejudices put words that aren't there in the first place.

            George
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        • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 9 2007 at 8:15pm by bluewolf373
          Wow.....I haven't laughed that hard in a long time. Seriously now. Your arguement against gay people is ludicrous. Number one, LGBT people make up nowhere near 51 percent of the population...it's estimated that we make up about 10 percent. Not only that, but since when did we have a shortage of babies? Last time I checked the world was over populated, not underpopulated. IMHO gay people serve as a sort of population control....if we had ten percent more babies in the world imagine how much bigger the population would be...there's already a lack of resources in many areas. But that's beside the point. Even if for some reason more and more people started being born gay and the percentage magically got up to 51 percent, the world would not die out. Gay people can also have children if they want them. It's not biologically impossible. There are surrogate parents, sperm donors, etc. Many of us want to have families just as much as straight couples do....too bad it's so hard to be able to do that safely and legally.



          Thanks for the laugh.











          tactickid wrote:

          (Jan 09 2007 @ 01:20pm)

          I agree. All sins are the same in the eyes of God. The church anti-gay? I don't think so. But the church needs more training. The church sins too and so the church focus on one or two sins to yield the focus of their sins somewhere else. I don't think this is intentional but is human. Christians or no Christians we all do it. It is not right though. We need to repent in order to receive grace.



          The Lord commanded us to preach the Gospel (not to exalt one or two sins) and He deals with the sin from inside out. The sinner then needs support to bear and leave the sin (if true repentance occur). It is not easy. But the church is so inmature that judges and accuse sometimes.



          Some Leaders exagerates the sin of homosexuality but they themselves lie, amd commercialize the gospel and oppress the weak. They use the offering money for their vacations and houses and cars. I am sure you know what I am talking about. That is sin too. same as homosexuality. Both the homosexual and the corrupted Leader should sit together and repent and pray for forgiveness and invite the prostitutes, the liars, the proudful, the opportunists, the jeaulous, the ambitious, to repent together of all those sins that cannot be seen like homosexuality.



          On the other hand, the reason why homosexuality is consider, in the human eye, a more horrendous sin is because it endangers humanity as we know it. This sin attempts to destroy the plan of God to fill the world, it executes the extermination of humanity. Imagine if 51% of the world was gay or lesbian, we will have less babies every year. Population will start to decrease, opposing a direct command from God to be fruitful. It is the cesation of life, and that is horrible.



          I think Mr. Jay Bakker is exercizing the same sin, trying to portrait himself as MORE LOVING than the church. Exalting the church sin of being judgemental and he on the other hand is so loving. So he is better than the church and therefore closer to God.



          This is not the way. The corruption of the church is biblical, but it should draw us closer to God when the church rejects us because we do not fear to tell their sin, and we should not waste our time attacking her but pray for her. And there is the persecuted church also that we can help instead. Take my advice Jay.

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          • RE: What makes being gay a sin? Posted on Jan 9 2007 at 8:32pm by jcisthelight619
            Yes, it is laughable. Initially, it was such idiotic comment that I was going to put into a pile with the other idiotic comments on here and leave it alone...but not going to happen. Someone downed Jay's ministry because he is trying to do this financially...what his ministry is about is to say..."I am not going to sit and listen to people speak in bigotry, condemnation and stupidity and attach it to the name of Jesus Christ." Blantant ignorance is by far what is bringing people away from Christ with stupid rants like this.



            bluewolf373 wrote:

            (Jan 09 2007 @ 08:15pm)

            Wow.....I haven't laughed that hard in a long time. Seriously now. Your arguement against gay people is ludicrous. Number one, LGBT people make up nowhere near 51 percent of the population...it's estimated that we make up about 10 percent. Not only that, but since when did we have a shortage of babies? Last time I checked the world was over populated, not underpopulated. IMHO gay people serve as a sort of population control....if we had ten percent more babies in the world imagine how much bigger the population would be...there's already a lack of resources in many areas. But that's beside the point. Even if for some reason more and more people started being born gay and the percentage magically got up to 51 percent, the world would not die out. Gay people can also have children if they want them. It's not biologically impossible. There are surrogate parents, sperm donors, etc. Many of us want to have families just as much as straight couples do....too bad it's so hard to be able to do that safely and legally.



            Thanks for the laugh.











            tactickid wrote:

            (Jan 09 2007 @ 01:20pm)

            I agree. All sins are the same in the eyes of God. The church anti-gay? I don't think so. But the church needs more training. The church sins too and so the church focus on one or two sins to yield the focus of their sins somewhere else. I don't think this is intentional but is human. Christians or no Christians we all do it. It is not right though. We need to repent in order to receive grace.



            The Lord commanded us to preach the Gospel (not to exalt one or two sins) and He deals with the sin from inside out. The sinner then needs support to bear and leave the sin (if true repentance occur). It is not easy. But the church is so inmature that judges and accuse sometimes.



            Some Leaders exagerates the sin of homosexuality but they themselves lie, amd commercialize the gospel and oppress the weak. They use the offering money for their vacations and houses and cars. I am sure you know what I am talking about. That is sin too. same as homosexuality. Both the homosexual and the corrupted Leader should sit together and repent and pray for forgiveness and invite the prostitutes, the liars, the proudful, the opportunists, the jeaulous, the ambitious, to repent together of all those sins that cannot be seen like homosexuality.



            On the other hand, the reason why homosexuality is consider, in the human eye, a more horrendous sin is because it endangers humanity as we know it. This sin attempts to destroy the plan of God to fill the world, it executes the extermination of humanity. Imagine if 51% of the world was gay or lesbian, we will have less babies every year. Population will start to decrease, opposing a direct command from God to be fruitful. It is the cesation of life, and that is horrible.



            I think Mr. Jay Bakker is exercizing the same sin, trying to portrait himself as MORE LOVING than the church. Exalting the church sin of being judgemental and he on the other hand is so loving. So he is better than the church and therefore closer to God.