And by the way, there is a LOT more going on to life than Gay or Straight and silly earthly issues like that. As such, for those people who allow descriptors of people to color their opinions and actions, "Let the one without sin cast the first stone..." (Wow, no one qualifies to throw stones!)
sandiheller wrote:
(Dec 24 2006 @ 03:07pm)
Jay, I have a question for you. To frame it a bit, I've noticed disillusionment with the evangelical Christian status quo. It's almost like Jesus is whispering in the ears of people like Carlton Pearson and saying "Don't buy what they're selling." So on with the question...you have a take on things that is much more in keeping with what I believe is truth. Are you prepared for the shit that comes down to those people willing to buck the system at their peril?
fear_68 wrote:
(Dec 23 2006 @ 12:44am)
I'm not suggesting for a second that there is anything wrong with homosexuality at all. Quite the opposite. What I was suggesting is that homosexuality, in my estimation, is no more a choice than heterosexuality. I don't recall choosig to be heterosexual. It's just the way I am. And I had plenty of opportunity to consider whether or not i may have been gay. I never experimented with that idea but I had opportunities where I could have. And I was just never attracted to men. And every homosexual person I have ever spoken to about this subject has said that they were never really attracted to the opposite sex, though some may have tried or pretended, and they came from various different backgrounds.
If your gay friends believe it is a choice, I would say they obviously have the right to believe whatever they want and they obviously would know more about why they are gay than I would. But what I would ask them is, that if it is a choice, does that then mean that if they wanted to that they could choose to be straight and to be attracted to the opposite sex? And if so, wouldn't that make them bi-sexual rather than homosexual?
thomas wrote:
(Dec 22 2006 @ 07:29pm)
You said "I do not believe it is a choice". Jay, you said the same thing on Episode 2. It seems the logic is, "Well, if it's not a choice than it cannot be wrong."
If this is true, then can I ask, "why can't I choose this lifestyle?" It seems to me any time someone says "well, it's not a choice," what they are reaffirming is this idea that homosexuality is something unwanted. "But, well, I was born with it so this is the life I must lead, and it can't be wrong." I have several gay friends who do not believe they were born with their sexual preferences, but have arrived at them regardless, through various other events. What would you say to them?
If homosexuality is not wrong, folks, then why can't some choose it?
T
[quote=fear_68] (Dec 22 2006 @ 07:05pm)
I've been told I am a very different type of Christian. My belief comes from a personal inescapable feeling of the presence of God. And a belief in Christ as the son of God and having sacrificed himself for the sins of mankind. Not from a church or the Bible. As such, my picture of God is not dictated by the Bible. The God I picture is very loving of his children. I do believe that God doesn't make mistakes.
So I also believe that God did not make a mistake in the creation of homosexual people. I do not believe it is a choice. I do not believe it is the environment in which they are raised. There are gay children that come out of the most conservative, heterosexual households and there are heterosexual children that come out of the most liberal, homosexual households. And all variations in between. I believe they are born gay just as I am born straight. I also can not for a second imagine the God I love creating these people to be homosexual to either deny who they truly are and to live a life of misery or to be damned to hell for being true to who they really are.
That then raises the question, why? Why would God create homosexual people? Well, why does God create people of different races? Why does God allow there to be people of various cultures? Why does God allow there to be people of various religions or lack there of? And so on. Diversity. What would be the point to this world if we were all the same? What would we gain from a place full of people that are all the same. These differences re what give this world it's color. It's flavor. Perhaps it's very meaning. But hey, those are just MY thoughts. :-) Merry Christmas! Happy Hanukkah! Happy Kwanzaa! Happy Holidays!
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